I mean I'm a girl - I get it - I've definitely gained weight from my 20's to 30's and you don't feel sexy so much anyway as you get older.
Seriously though, confidence is super sexy. You gotta own that (...or even fake it sometimes.)
...I think men (and women) respond to women who own their sensuality and are confident in it. Not flaunting, not clingy, not desperate.
Seems like a lot of gals have forgotten (or are misguided) on how to be a woman and in my opinion that's what men mostly want (in simplistic terms) - a woman .
Maya Angelou's "Phenomenal Woman" - she totally nails it.
